Marriage and Relationship Counselling & Therapy in London and online since 2008
Learn how to handle relationship anxiety and feel more confident in your love life.
Wise and heartfelt online Relationship Counselling and Psychotherapy services for deeply curious souls to learn how to truly love, and be loved.
Feelings of anxiety affecting your relationship? Let’s increase your self-confidence, so you can be fully yourself in the world of love. Our expert and caring Marriage and Relationship Counselling, Therapy & Coaching Services will help you heal from the impact of past experiences, rebuild your self-esteem, and cultivate a healthy, secure, loving relationship.
Our experienced Life Coaches are also qualified Counsellors & Psychotherapists, giving you the full range of support you need to feel more connected to yourself and your partner all under one roof. Our unique approach draws on the best of Western Psychology and the spiritual richness of Eastern Philosophy, in order to bridge the head and the heart, doing and being.
LIFE IS PRECIOUS. HOW WE LOVE MATTERS.
Would you like to experience less doubt, worry and anxiety, and instead feel more self-confident in your relationship? A safe, trusting, supportive relationship is possible. Let’s make the first step today by requesting a free discovery call:
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When you know you’ve been obsessing about your romantic relationship for too long, letting it take over everything, and the other areas of your life are suffering as a result, then download your free guide today.
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Relationship Counselling & Therapy: what will you get out of working with us?
Enjoy the wonderful benefits of our time together.
Heal those nagging experiences of the past and let go of what no longer serves you. By create space within your inner being, you come home to a source of peace within yourself.
Fall in love again with yourself, others, our planet and life itself. Feeling the joy this brings in the core of your being, radiating out for the benefit of all.
No more insecurity, self-doubt or begging for external reassurances to ease your anxiety. Let’s increase your self-belief and self-esteem, so nobody but yourself determines your own worth.
A lack of self-confidence and anxiety affecting your love-life? Our expert and caring Marriage and Relationship Counselling & Therapy Services will help you overcome any past experiences that have undermined your self-esteem and bring back your inner strength and self-belief, so you can speak up without fear, be fully yourself and enjoy a healthy, loving relationship.
What makes Relationship Counselling & Therapy with us so special?
There are so many “LOVE GURUS” out there. These are FOUR reasons why you’LL LOVE to work with us.
East meets West
soulful living
Our expertise brings together the best of Western Psychology and the ancient wisdom of Eastern Philosophy. Working with us bridges doing and being, your head and your heart, so you can experience a more fulfilling way of being.
Coaching & Therapy
We support you all the way
The wonderful thing about having a qualified Counsellor & Psychotherapist who is also an experienced Coach is that you’ve got all the support you need under one roof. We’ll heal the past that might hold you back, and know the practical steps to move forward.
We’ve been there
every one of us has had therapy
Our Coaches & Therapists have sat in the client seat for years and years, as we believe we can only guide you as deep as we’ve been within ourselves. We found the courage to reflect on life deeply and to make changes, and can help you do the same.
because life is short
AND HOW WE LOVE MATTERS
"My sessions with Karin are like a docking station for inner calm.”
Anna Brech
“I was going through a particularly turbulent time and feeling quite lost. From the first session with Karin I felt a lot of relief and clarity. After each session with her I felt more confidence, greater awareness of my own thought processes, and gradually a kinder and more spacious internal landscape.”
JENNIFER COYNE
Marriage and Relationship Counselling & Therapy: Learn how to love and be loved
You know you need this. But for people who only see your life from the outside it would come as a surprise (not that you’re planning to tell them). They see your high-profile job, healthy pay check, sociable partner and exciting trips abroad. You’re busy, and fun (most of the time), and you try to be kind. Nobody would ever guess. To others, it looks like you’ve nailed life.
But they don’t know that you often feel terribly insecure on the inside, your thoughts spinning with anxious scenarios. Especially around your partner… It’s really confusing you, how can you feel so strong and capable under most circumstances, yet be só affected when you fear you’ve done something wrong...
Enjoy that instant feeling of relief, knowing you’ve taken the first step increase your self-esteem so you can be yourself in love:
Sessions face-to-face in London and worldwide (online).
kind words from happy clients
"Karin helped me enormously through a difficult period. The sessions have helped me to gain much needed confidence, peace of mind, and resources to face some challenging life situations.”
ANNA ZILMAN
"I came to see Karin regarding my self-confidence. I wanted to gain courage to take on new roles and projects instead of being anxious about failure, and not to doubt myself when questioned. I wanted to learn to stand up to people and to not get defensive. I have never liked confrontation, and wanted to deal with this in a positive way. Karin helped me feel more focused, confident, trusting, proud and free. That side of me has a sparkle and lots of energy and it felt exciting to recognise that part I long lost in me again."
LYNDA SULLIVAN
So glad you’re here.
Inspired by Eastern Philosophy, I use mindfulness, meditation and the wisdom, loving-kindness and compassion of Buddhism to enrich my Coaching & Psychotherapy work. Coming from a corporate background in Sales & Marketing at Heineken, I know what it's like to feel torn between doing and being, head and heart. And I've been where you are, needing to make a significant shift, and found the courage to reflect on life deeply and took the steps to make those changes. I can help you do the same.
Born in The Netherlands and living in the UK, I work in English and Dutch. I work remotely via online video call from wherever you are in the world.
I'm a lover of travel as a form of therapy, I believe by travelling the world we can come home to ourselves.
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Increase your Self-Confidence in your Romantic Relationship
You had another horrible, sleepless night, frustrated and deeply hurt. Your partner lay next to you, fast asleep, probably without any idea how yesterday's conversation affected you. You hate it when the two of you argue, it upsets you for days. You haven't slept a wink, spending hours replaying the conversation and coming up with ideas about what you should have said, rehearsing endless conversations in your head about what you want to say tomorrow. But deep down you already know that you will not find the courage or the right words. And if that's not painful enough, you get mad at yourself for being so weak...
Your partner tells you that he (she/they) is going out with friends for a day on Sunday. Your good mood disappears immediately. Just a few days ago, you had mustered up the courage and told him that you would like to spend more time together. Now you're confused, are you asking too much and is his request reasonable, or has he just forgotten because he doesn't really care how you feel? You are unsure whether you are being treated well in this relationship, and you no longer trust your own judgment. You are angry with him, but also afraid that he will leave you. But you still let the moment pass and say nothing.
You are your own worst critic. Judging yourself has become so normal that you usually don't even notice how loudly you are talking to yourself. If your friends lived in your head, they would be shocked. You assume that if something goes wrong it's your fault, and even if it isn't, it's probably still your fault. An argument; "I shouldn't have said that". An awkward atmosphere between the two of you "I'm too dependent, I want too much". You are constantly apologizing (even though you don’t want to) and feel guilty about everything.
You pride yourself on being quite self-aware, but the level of overthinking and over-analyzing your relationship is so tiring. It is impossible to imagine silence in your mind. You're usually not like this, you don't recognize this insecure version of yourself. Where has the spontaneous, cheerful, carefree you gone?
Deep down you know that if you don't do something about this insecurity now, you will eventually end up like in a similar relationship to your parents. Swallowing your feelings, needs, desires and dreams to avoid rocking the boat. If you keep swallowing what you think and who you are for some kind of superficial harmony, then one day there will be absolutely nothing left of the person you once were or imagined you would be...
It’s doesn’t need to be like this. Begin with increasing your self-confidence, so you can find your voice and stand up for yourself in your relationship:
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find yourself triggered into unhelpful critical reactions, where you feel like you’re completely misunderstanding each other, or where you almost revert to A childish version of yourself? Let’s change this today.
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So, what’s the best next step for you?
Expert Marriage and Relationship Counselling & Therapy in LOndon and online since 2008
Read more about Karin Peeters, our Founder and experienced Love & Relationship Therapist since 2008.
I’m ready to improve my relationship, I’d like to work with you and get started straight away!
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