From Triggered to Steady: free Mini-Course

How to stop spiralling in difficult moments with your partner and reclaim your self-confidence in love.

 
 
 

For strong, capable women who feel unsure in their romantic relationships — and want to feel calm, clear, and confident in how they show up. Download your free mini-course today.

 

From Triggered to Steady: A free mini-course to Respond to conflict with Confidence

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Life seems to go rather well for you outside of your romantic relationship: you’ve got lovely friends, you’re respected at work, consider yourself quite self-aware and actually feel pretty good about who you are as a person.

Despite your general confidence, and to your own frustration and surprise, in the area of love, it’s like something flips:

  • You don’t recognise yourself in your way of reacting, you wish to show up kinder, braver, calmer, but you aren’t able to get yourself there;

  • You worry about losing your partner, or — possibly even worse — yourself;

  • You are aware that past experiences and old wounds might be impacting your current relationship, and you want to learn more.

  • You feel insecure and self-critical in love, and seem to be settling for crumbs — and you really dislike this about yourself.

If this sounds like you, know this: You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not somehow unsuitable for a healthy relationship. And you’re most definitely not alone.

This is your opportunity to take back the reins, feel the empowered energy that comes with taking responsability for what is yours to heal and lovingly show up as the partner you want to be.

Having worked as a Coach & Psychotherapist since 2008, my take is that you are carrying the weight of old relational wounds (and quite likely, so is your partner) — and they’re showing up now in your romantic relationship in ways you never expected.

This short video and accompanying workbook will help you understand what’s really happening in the dynamic between you and your partner by giving you a clear step-by-step process to break free from the knee-jerk reactions and to respond from a steadier, calmer and kinder place.

Download the free guide “from Triggered to Steady” today and enjoy how your renewed self-confidence brings calm and connection to your relationship.

 
 
 
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“What did your partner really mean?”

From Triggered to Steady: A free video and workbook to Respond to conflict with Confidence

 

There’s a saying in the world of psychotherapy that most couples really just have the same fight over and over again in the course of their relationship. But when we get lost in the specifics of each individual argument we don’t see the red thread that links them together, or get underneath what’s really causing the conflict. Which is unlikely to be that your partner didn’t stack the dishwasher in the right way, or forgot your wedding anniversary, but rather the deeper dynamics, unmet emotional needs and unresolved wounds from the past.

The truth is many of us experience these repeating patterns, but until we can make sense of and understand what is actually happening in the moments we are triggered by our partner, it’s hard to improve anything in a sustainable way. As a Coach & Psychotherapist I believe that what keeps us stuck isn’t just the conflict itself, but the deeper emotional weight we’re both unknowingly bringing into it — old patterns, past wounds, unfinished business of previous relational pains…

At Vitalis Coaching & Therapy we offer a path of conscious love which gently leads you back to a safe, secure, and loving relationship with yourself — so you can bring that much-desired steady confidence into your romantic relationship. You’ll no longer be weighed down by fears, unspoken words, or emotional reactivity. You can show up as yourself, and this is what creates real intimacy. In this free offering we will take the first step together.

Download your free copy of “From Triggered to Steady” — a short video and accompanying workbook to help restore your self-confidence as a partner. Feeling calm and grounded, your relationship will naturally reflect this positive shift — with joy, ease, and genuine connection returning to your shared moments.

 
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Take a detour from your usual emotional reactivity, your inner journey back to feeling confident as a partner starts here today.

 
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 From Triggered to Steady - free video and workbook

In this thoughtful video tutorial and three-step workbook you will discover:

  • The Psychology Explained: To move from conflict to connection we need to get underneath what’s really causing the negative downward spiral. It’s not what our partner says or does that touches a tender spot — it’s what we think it means. Learning to separate past pain from present reality is a powerful step toward feeling emotionally safe and confident in love again.

  • Self- Inquiry Practice: Powerful questions to uncover your default reactive patterns in conflict, which replaces the self-doubt and self-blame by curiosity and self-compassion.

Enjoy the steady confidence that grows within you, the healthier, kinder dialogue and the loving, joyful connection it brings to your relationship.

Request the free mini-course “From Triggered to Steady” by registering with your email address and enjoy the renewed confidence it brings to your romantic relationship.

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 “I just want to feel like me again — calm, confident, and secure in myself, and in love.”

This free mini-course is your starting point to making it real.

It’s not just about fixing your partner (even if it feels like they’re the problem - we’ve all been there), or the relationship.
It’s first and foremost about reclaiming your confidence and rebuilding your connection with yourself.
So you can stand tall in your truth, be fully and unapologetically yourself, and trust that a healthy, secure relationship isn’t just for other people — it’s for you, too.

 
 
 
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